Ready to start building your best marriage?

Start now with ‘Make Yourself Understood’…

…and discover why

…sitting down at home on a Saturday afternoon to watch TV, when your wife calls your name with THAT tone, you tense up “uh-oh what did I (not) do now?”

…turning off the light in bed, as you take your wife’s hand to get up the courage to ask if you can have sex, she pulls it away, you feel “What’s the point of even trying?”

You’ll learn to remove your barriers to communicating – in under an hour.

How It Works

You’ll complete a 30m online assessment and then get on a 45-minute call with me.

By the end of the session you’ll know:

  • your natural talents as a man and husband (and also get a customised report)
  • what it will take for you to start to build a fulfilling marriage
  • one personalised action you can practise immediately to connect deeply with your wife

“At the end of every session I feel more grounded and grateful for what I have.”

James brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to his coaching sessions. I leave with a reassuring sense of clarity and purpose, whatever the issue I am dealing with. James is focussed, present and highly effective at what he does. Highly recommended.

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Want to create a whole new level of confidence in your marriage?


…sitting at your desk at work, sipping your second coffee. Your phone rings. Smiling as you see your wife’s number, you pick up and say “how are you?”

…over dinner your wife says “Thank you for listening and for everything you do for us. It means a lot to me.”

…telling a story as you drive to see your family…your wife interrupts…and you find yourself smiling

‘Build A Great Marriage’ is my premium coaching programme

It’s put together from the ground up for husbands who are deeply committed to their wives.

It’s for married men who:

have a sense of the opportunity for growth that a marriage can be…

…but can’t quite see how to get there.

This is how you create an intimate, fulfilling marriage.

The steps to building your great marriage

A: Yourself As A Great Husband [5 sessions]

We’ll start by getting to know (and own) your natural talents and needs as a man – and a husband. Maybe you find yourself getting snappy when your wife starts talking “at” you – because what you really need is some time to relax before you can be with her 100%. This step is also about enhancing your own friendships with men so you have male support around you. By the end of this section, you’ll know how you can show your love in a way that avoids frustration, whilst having your needs met, AND knowing you have  backup outside your marriage.

B: Your Marriage [4 sessions]

Here’s where the rubber hits the road – this part is all about your wife. If you’ve ever felt as if every conversation could turn into an argument – you’ll find out why AND practise prevention. As you start to talk openly, you’ll begin to clear frustration and remove barriers to intimacy. By the end of this part you’ll be creating great times with your wife – on purpose.

C: Your Future [4 sessions]

Time now to take it to a new level – expressing your leadership and building a partnership with your wife from the ground up. If you’ve ever worried about feeling stifled or constrained in your marriage, you’ll discover the importance of keeping true to yourselves as individuals to strengthen each other. The result is a marriage that’s built on small actions, done regularly, with the support of family and friends. You’ll be ready to nurture yourself, your wife, and your marriage through the natural ups and downs of life.

How to find out if this programme is for you

Making a choice to set aside the time and investment for coaching like this demands consideration.

You need to know if I’m the right coach for you.

The starting point is booking an insight call to support the process of choosing.

Click the button below to begin.

“James really does ‘walk the talk’.”

He helped me turn my marriage of 17 years from something that was ‘okay’ into something that is now exciting, fresh and nurturing for both me and my wife. It requires work and attention, but it is no longer a chore or something I take for granted. I’m able to listen when before I would react. That makes for a much happier house. Strongly strongly recommended.